{"id":169,"date":"2020-10-06T20:51:17","date_gmt":"2020-10-06T19:51:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lilycollinsfan.com\/?p=169"},"modified":"2020-10-06T20:52:27","modified_gmt":"2020-10-06T19:52:27","slug":"for-lily-collins-emily-in-paris-is-about-self-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/lilycollinsfan.com\/2020\/10\/06\/for-lily-collins-emily-in-paris-is-about-self-love\/","title":{"rendered":"For Lily Collins, Emily in Paris is About Self-Love"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

The actress Lily Collins<\/a> recently found peace sitting on a surfboard in the Pacific Ocean, waiting for a wave to come. Of all the activities Collins took up while quarantining<\/a> at her home in Los Angeles over the summer\u2014jamming through stacks of books about meditation and self-reflection; listening to podcasts from Bren\u00e9 Brown and Jay Shetty, a former monk; going on road trips to Northern California\u2014surfing became a particular favorite. After some lessons on land from her boyfriend, Charlie McDowell, an avid surfer himself, she\u2019d wade in. When the swell came, she\u2019d hop up on her board, trying to be as strong as she could, focused on simply getting on her feet and staying there. She realized she had no control over the water, which would sometimes completely take her over, swallow her up in its power, and then spit her back out onto the shore. Whenever that happened, Collins just let it ride out, face-planting into sand, often in front of other beach-goers. What else could she do?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the phone a couple months later, Collins is one of the few people you\u2019ll hear describe her experience in lockdown<\/a> as \u201camazing, actually.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI know it\u2019s super strange, but I haven\u2019t been stationary in one place for this long in\u2014I can\u2019t remember how long,\u201d 31-year-old Collins says. But like most others, she spent the time forced to do a fair amount of reflection on what she wanted from her life: without the distractions of traveling, work, spending time with friends and family, going outside, a metaphorical mirror was placed in front of her, forcing her to dig deep and look at the things about herself she might have usually ignored. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

There were, however, lighter moments in quarantine: her father, Phil Collins, for example, experienced a spike on the musical charts, after two twin YouTubers, Tim and Fred Williams, better known by their handle Twinsthenewtrend, posted a video in which they listened to\u00a0In the Air Tonight<\/em>\u00a0for the first time. It went viral, racking up millions of views, and shooting the elder Collins\u2019 record, originally released in 1980, to the top of Spotify\u2019s and Apple Music\u2019s lists. Soon after the video went up in August, Lily Collins\u2019 phone started lighting up with texts, e-mails, and DMs on Instagram from people sending her clips of the video. She sent it to her father.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI was like, \u2018Dad, I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve literally received this so many times, but please watch this,\u2019\u201d she says. \u201cI remember having this conversation with him when I was younger. I would share with him the music and the new bands that I was listening to at the time. He was just as inspired by young musicians and young artists, just as much as when you read interviews of up-and-coming artists and they talk about who they admire. So I think he really gets a kick out of seeing how his music, which I’m sure sometimes he thinks is so past irrelevant, comes around again.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although Collins has few qualms discussing her family life now, this wasn\u2019t always the case. Coming from such a legendary background caused her to pass her teen years\u2014after she\u2019d moved from her hometown in Surrey, England, to Los Angeles, at the age of six\u2014in a state of anxiety, worried that people expected her to be a certain way: spoiled, charming, talented, successful, perfect. She took these assumptions and put them upon herself, trying to fit in, attempting to please others. Collins tweezed and shaved her thick eyebrows, she hid her British accent. And in past interviews, she\u2019s shied away from speaking about her upbringing, noting there are just some topics in her private life that are off the table in terms of what she\u2019s willing to discuss.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Collins has been adamant about creating her own path, perhaps in a marked attempt to distinguish herself as an individual from the famous names attached to her. And indeed, she\u2019s built a career on her own, starring in films like Bong Joon Ho\u2019s\u00a0Okja<\/em>, and\u00a0To the Bone<\/em>, the story of a woman with an eating disorder (a narrative that mirrored Collins\u2019s own life; she herself struggled for years with extreme dieting, bingeing and purging, and abusing laxatives and pills). In a departure from these darker, more Gothic roles she\u2019s used to playing, Collins will star in the upcoming Netflix series\u00a0Emily in Paris<\/em>, which debuts on October 2. It\u2019s a rom-com about a beautiful dream girl living in Chicago whose work takes her to France\u2014where she encounters pain au chocolat and handsome men waiting to sweep her off her feet. Produced by\u00a0Sex and the City<\/em>\u2019s Darren Star, and costumed by Patricia Field, the same designer who worked on Carrie Bradshaw and co., the show has an upbeat, sunny, quality. It feels like the anti-reality, especially now. Emily\u2019s world is a fantasy, and Emily herself is utterly unflappable, in a typically American-in-Paris way: she requests her steak be well-done, and asks to speak to the chef when the server refuses to give her anything but rare; she doesn\u2019t try to learn how to speak French until she\u2019s told to, and immediately upon landing in her new office, she begins to give unsolicited advice on how to revamp the company\u2019s social media presence (in English). While I watched Emily flounce around in floral ball skirts and purses with the Eiffel Tower on them, I was equal parts horrified and entranced. I cringed at the steak part\u2014just take it rare! Don\u2019t be rude!\u2014and wondered what the\u00a0hell<\/em>\u00a0kind of show this was. But each time a new episode automatically began, I couldn\u2019t turn it off.\u00a0Emily in Paris<\/em>\u00a0is binge-worthy, aspirational cinema at its finest. In my own life, I\u2019m unsure of the next time I\u2019ll be able to travel, unsure of the future\u2014but in the show, I can watch Emily\u2019s adventures on the Champs-Elys\u00e9es, meeting people, feeling the first flush of a new romance, taking a huge bite out of a buttered baguette. Simply put, it\u2019s a fun show. It makes you feel good. And in a deeper sense, Emily feels no amount of confusion, never questions what\u2019s to come\u2014in fact, she\u2019s excited for what may be. When was the last time you felt that way?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

During this round of press to promote the show, Collins says, lots of reporters have asked her why she decided to take on a role that\u2019s so different from her past ones. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI do love darker roles,\u201d she explains. \u201cI definitely feel like I get to explore different sides of myself with every job that I do. And I\u2019ve never wanted to be put into a box as one specific type of character that I get known for playing, or that I think I can play. I\u2019d been looking for a fun, comical, witty, fashion-y, loving-life type of character for a long time. But those roles are very specific and they come around every once in a while. I needed the character to also have smarts, and a heart, and not to just be one thing. Playing Emily, for me, was a release, because I\u2019d never gotten to really show that side of myself before. \u201cA big thing, for us, in the development of Emily was that we never wanted it to seem as thought she had to have this transformation in order to be accepted,\u201d she continues. \u201cShe\u2019s like, \u2018I’m not going to change who I am, but I’m going to wear that Eiffel Tower shirt if I want to. And I’m going to carry that Mona Lisa bag, because I’m obvious and that’s great.\u2019 She’s proud of who she is, but she’s not afraid to adapt to where she is as well. Throughout the series, her confidence grows. She doesn\u2019t worry about what people are thinking. At the beginning, she takes to heart the judgments that people in the office are giving her, but by the end, you can see that she’s endearing to them. She knows it doesn’t matter what people say or think.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Collins is obsessed, she says, with examining the human experience. It\u2019s why she studied broadcast journalism at USC, went into communications, started her career by covering the 2008 election as a host on the Nickelodeon series Kids Pick the President. <\/em>She liked doing interviews with people, asking them questions, seeing their souls, their values, their deepest wishes, coming out in small ways. She was curious to know them, to understand them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The actress is also obsessed, it turns out, with looking inward. A morning spent drinking cups of coffee, reading her meditation books, practicing introspection, is one of her most-loved activities. (Lucky for her to enjoy such a task, since understanding the self is often a lifelong journey for most people.) But for Collins, learning about herself and what she really wanted from her life was a way for her to escape the clutches of expectations put upon her as a kid. In 2017, she wrote a book called Unfiltered: No Shame, No Regrets, Just Me<\/em>, that, she says, allowed her to shed all of that\u2014let it go and leave it in the past. And in quarantine, she began work on another book, jotting down the lessons she’s learned in isolation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI can’t remember the last time I tried something new with that fear of failing in the back of my mind,\u201d Collins says of learning to surf during this time. \u201cBut with something like surfing, you put yourself in that vulnerable position to fail. It gives you that feeling of letting go and knowing that it’s okay, any moment that’s new and fresh as an experience, is a good thing.\u201d Collins says acting is a little bit like that; it forces her to be present. It is practice as a form of meditation, to sit in stillness, if only for a moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Source<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The actress Lily Collins recently found peace sitting on a surfboard in the Pacific Ocean, waiting for a wave to come. Of all the activities Collins took up while quarantining at her home in Los Angeles over the summer\u2014jamming through stacks of books about meditation and self-reflection; listening to podcasts from Bren\u00e9 Brown and Jay Shetty, a former monk; … Continue reading “For Lily Collins, Emily in Paris is About Self-Love”<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/lilycollinsfan.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/169"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/lilycollinsfan.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/lilycollinsfan.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lilycollinsfan.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lilycollinsfan.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=169"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/lilycollinsfan.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/169\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":170,"href":"http:\/\/lilycollinsfan.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/169\/revisions\/170"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/lilycollinsfan.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=169"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lilycollinsfan.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=169"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/lilycollinsfan.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=169"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}